There comes a time in your life where you make a definite connection with someone that is unexplainable but powerful. Nothing but memorable. A pin point in your timeline where you remember the exact events that were going on even down to the clothes you wore. Pure magnetic attraction... LOVE...
February 2003... This would be the month and year that my life would start to change for the better. When I got home I walked into my house and my sisters were home from college so I was definitely excited. I continued on to walk into my living room and not ONE but TWO of the biggest human beings I've ever seen in my life stood up to introduce themselves. My sisters brought these two brothers down from Snow College because they had to catch a flight the next day out of Salt Lake City back to Arizona so that night my sisters wanted to take the brothers out. Fortunately for them there was a Poly Club Dance at the U of U so we all got ready and headed out to boogie the night away. But unfortunately for me I was the only one that had money so I paid for everybody to get in to the dance lol... As the night went on a song came up and I started walking towards the tallest brother to ask him to dance. I was only but a few steps away from him and some guy came and started talking to him and he turned his back and that was definitely a MODED moment in my life so I turned and asked the shorter brother to dance lol... The night ended with drama so we quickly left and no byes were exchanged. Only thoughts of WHERE DID HE GO?
A month or two later I was preparing to graduate and head straight for BYU, Hawai'i. My dream since I was a child was to go to BYUH and get my degree to become a teacher or psychologist and take care of my parents and live happily ever after. Easier said than done aye? So I told my plans to this lovely young man so passionately and the first thing that comes out of his mouth is WHY DO YOU WANT TO GO TO SCHOOL ON A ROCK? I was in complete silence. I didn't have an answer for that. I didn't know why. But quickly realized that when you are a child you make up dreams and goals and you say it repetitively and then you grow up and things change and then your dreams become rehearsed words. So I truly thought about it and started weighing out the pros and cons of going to BYUH or going to Snow College. My sisters were at Snow. My fave gentleman was at Snow. Classes are smaller at Snow. So why not Snow??? Plus... There was something about this man that I couldn't let get away. So within days I decided to give up my childhood dreams and go with my heart. And with that decision being made the first pick up line came out from my future husband. He said OH I HAVE SOME STUFF THAT CAN HELP YOU WITH YOUR A.C.T. TEST SO IF YOU GIVE ME YOUR EMAIL THEN I CAN EMAIL IT TO YOU. I would definitely have to say that he was very original and it was a first for me to have someone ask for my email lol... So I took the bate and gave it to him. Fast forward a bit and lets just say I never got the "A.C.T. Test help" that he claimed he had lol...
A couple months later our innocent email flirting became more than just words. Feelings were revealed and happiness soon followed. What can I say? Who would have thought that the tallest brother that I met in my living room would end up to be my companion of 8 years, my husband of 7 years and the father of my 4 beautiful children. I always ask him WHAT WOULD HAVE HAPPENED IF WE DANCED THAT NIGHT? I will always wonder. But the sweetest thing about this all is the first time my husband laid eyes on me he said to himself that I WOULD BE HIS GIRL. So back to the question is love at first sight possible? Yes, it is. My life is living proof of that fact.
Ofa Lahi Atu Taitusi Lomu Lutui. You are my world, my heart, my life and my love. You have brought nothing but pure happiness into my life. I adore you and I am proud to say that I AM PUANANI PI'IMAUNA LUTUI AKA MRS TBOLITNFL.